As I meditated on the following passage, I realized how much I need the work of Christ in my life to be a conqueror in these areas every day. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we all made these our New Year's Resolutions?
You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. ~Ephesians 4:22-32, NIV
PUT OFF THE OLD
- Self: Our hearts are naturally deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9).
- Falsehood/Lies: Satan is the father of lies (John 8:44).
- Anger: Like a deeply embedded splinter, the longer we hold onto anger, the more painful and deadly it becomes. It also gives the enemy a crack to squeeze into.
- Stealing: Stealing defrauds others, ourselves and God.
- Unwholesome Talk: Nasty jokes, curse words, gossip and slander--the trash talk needs to go back to the trash and stay there.
- Grieving God's Spirit: Holy God lives within us. He is grieved when we act in malice toward others.
- Self: We're created to be like God in righteousness and holiness. While we can't acquire these qualities for ourselves, God has graciously given them to us through Jesus (2 Corinthians 5:21).
- Truthfulness: Believers must speak truth because we're part of the body of Christ, who is Truth (John 14:6).
- Usefulness: God has placed us in our place of work/service. Our work provides us with the means to meet our daily needs, but it's also for the purpose of sharing "with those in need."
- Building Others Up: Our words hold life and death (Proverbs 18:21). May we be quick to speak words of life.
- Kindness, Compassion, Forgiveness: God, in His goodness, has bestowed these gifts on us. How can we do any less?